As I mentioned a few days ago, in my younger years I had problems understanding what was going on in other people’s heads — apparently a problem common to people like me. It seems that it’s a good thing that I’ve always read a lot of fiction, that trait is probably responsible for the majority of my ability to empathize with others. Looking back on it, it’s pretty obvious that one of the appeals was the glimpses into how other people thought.
For others with similar difficulties and an enjoyment of fantasy, I highly recommend anything and everything by Mercedes Lackey. Be warned, she’ll stretch your mind, and it won’t always be comfortable, but keep reading anyway. You’ll be glad you did.